Top Five Things You Should Do Before Filing for Divorce in Spring
Springtime is all about new beginnings, and that can include a long-delayed divorce. It can be overwhelming to make a decision when you are on the verge of it. You can feel calm, confident, and prepared if you prepare properly. We’ve helped thousands in Alabama take the first step at the Harris firm. Here are the top five things you can start doing now to prepare yourself for divorce this spring. 1. Get Clear on Your PrioritiesBefore filing, take time to reflect on what matters to you. Is it to protect your time with your kids? Keep the house? Financial stability? Peace of mind?
Pro tip: Write down your top 3 priorities. Keep them near you – they’ll guide your decisions.
2. Gather Financial Documents
Divorce involves dividing assets and debts, so having your financial picture ready to go will save time and stress. Start collecting:
Tax returns (last 2-3 years)
- Pay stubs & Income Info
- Bank statements and credit card statements
Retirement account statementsIf you can access it now, do it
before
things get complicated.
- 3. Create a budget for life after divorce
- This can be a little frightening, but it is essential. Understand your current expenses and what your financial reality might look like post-divorce.
- Ask yourself:
- What do I need to maintain a safe, stable life?
Will I be required to pay child support or alimony if I have children?
Can I afford to keep the house, or is it smarter to sell?Budgeting now = clarity later.4. Think Through Custody & Parenting Plans
If you have children, you’ll need to propose a parenting plan that outlines:
Physical and legal custody
Communication expectations
- Judges in Alabama want to see plans that put the child’s best interests first
- . It shows that you are focused and prepared if you come in with child-centered ideas. Schedule a Consultation With a Divorce Lawyer
- Even though you may not be 100% ready to file for divorce,
meeting a family law lawyer gives you clarity and strength.
A good lawyer will explain your rights under Alabama law.
Whether your divorce is uncontested or contested
Spring is a new beginning. Start It with Strength!
- Divorce is never easy, but it doesn’t have to be chaotic or scary. The
- Harris firm
is here to guide you with compassion, clarity and confidence. We’ll help you take the first steps, whether you’re just starting to think about divorce or you are ready to file. Let’s talk.Attorney Steven A. Harris regularly blogs in the areas of family law, bankruptcy, probate, and real estate closings on this website. Mr. Harris strives to provide information in an easy-to-digest format to the public. We hope you enjoyed the article and welcome any feedback. We love to hear from our readers!
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